Joy Elizabeth Harrington on Instagram: "Feeling hurt by porn doesn’t make you insecure. But staying stuck in resentment won’t get you chosen. Most women stop at the pain. They personalize it. They compare themselves. They wait for reassurance that never really lands. And underneath all of it is the same desire: To be wanted. To be prioritized. To feel chosen without having to compete. What keeps women stuck isn’t porn. It’s the story they tell themselves about what it means — and what they do ne